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Mary Magdalene as example

Dear friends and members of St. Matt's,

Tomorrow (the 22nd) is the Feast day of Mary Magdalene. Mary is a favorite of mine - often misconstrued, or misunderstood - Mary is a fantastic figure. She is the first apostle - meaning that she is the very first person Jesus sees after the resurrection - and when Jesus sends her out with the good news to tell the disciples that she has seen the Lord, he makes her the first apostle (apostle literally means one who is sent). We know from scripture and tradition that she plays a big role in the community of disciples before Jesus makes his way to the cross. And perhaps an even bigger role after the resurrection - and so much of that has been lost because of the way the church framed the ministry of women in the first century. So, there are pieces of her story we may never know.

What we do know is that she loved Jesus. She was close to Jesus. And he returned her love, appearing to her first in the garden after the resurrection. She stayed with him while he was on the cross. While so many ran away, she was fearless and faithful. Perhaps this is because Jesus "cleansed" her of "seven demons." (Send me a note if you want to talk about what that (might have) meant!) She was loyal. She was present. She was unwilling to leave him. She was grateful for his presence in her life. And she was given a place in the community, a place in the story, a role in the Jesus movement.

Her legend is deep and wide. For generations, the church accused her of things that we know from scripture aren't true. Instead, tradition tell us she was practical, determined, unyielding. And what we see in scripture is that her love for Jesus was real. It was visible to others. It changed people's minds. It changed the world around her.

All of us struggle at one point or another, in one season or another, with the false projections others put on us. With the ways our actions or intentions are misconstrued. With the feeling that someone missed us - or missed what we were trying to do. Sometimes, we need to be mindful of intent and impact and own that what we wanted to do or say isn't quite what happened. And, even with our best efforts, there are times when our story gets lost, when our ideas don't translate, when someone "gets us wrong". Mary would know this feeling well - she was misrepresented by the church for generations. It's only recently that we have begun to reclaim her as a strong figure of faith. So, if Mary's example can teach us anything, it's just to...keep doing what we can do. Keep showing up. Keep being present. Keep being kind. Keep insisting on the right thing, on the good thing, on the love of God in Jesus Christ. And God, who looks on the heart, will know the truth, and at the right time, will reveal the truth.

I wonder...where are the places in your life where there's a lack of translation, understanding, or communication? Not everything can be fixed, but we can choose who we are in the midst of what is broken. Are we people of peace and justice and love? Are we people who insist on hope and kindness? Do we try, as far as it depends on us, to be fearless and faithful for the sake of Jesus? Where is Jesus calling you to stay with him, to be with him, even as others leave him behind?

Even though it's summer, there are plenty of opportunities in our life and worship for you to explore what this means in your life this week, this month, this moment. Join us. Join us on this journey as we seek to follow Jesus into the work of love. As always, please be in touch if there's anything I can do for you. I hope to see you on Sunday, and until then, I pray God's blessing upon you and all those you love.

Faithfully,

--Marissa +


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Sermons

  • Aug 14 | The Rev. Mark Montgomery
    The Tenth Sunday after Pentecost.
  • Aug 7 | The Rev. Marissa S. Rohrbach
    The Ninth Sunday after Pentecost.
  • Jul 31 | The Rev. Marissa S. Rohrbach
    The Eighth Sunday after Pentecost.
  • Jul 24 | The Rev. Marissa S. Rohrbach
    The Seventh Sunday after Pentecost.
  • Jul 17 | The Rev. Marissa S. Rohrbach
    The Sixth Sunday after Pentecost.


St. Matthew's Episcopal Church
36 New Canaan Rd., Wilton, CT 06897
(203) 762-7400

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Service Times

Sundays at 10 am

Holy Eucharist Rite II
Church School & Nursery Care during worship


Location

St. Matthew's Episcopal Church
36 New Canaan Rd.
Wilton, CT 06897

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(203) 762-7400

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St Matthew’s is a community of disciples and we are on a journey together. We are called to participate in God’s mission. We learn and dream, worship and pray, laugh, cry and serve together. St. Matt’s is a place where we learn about God and learn to be disciples. It’s a place to call home. A place to belong. Wherever you are on your spiritual journey, you are welcome.

As you reach the doors to St. Matthew’s Church you will be greeted by a member of our church. Feel free to ask questions and sign in at our Visitors Book located on your left side just past the name tag table. You will be handed a bulletin as you walk into the sanctuary so you can fully participate in the service if you want. Come as you are! No dress code required.

If you need childcare services, please ask your Greeter for direction.

Sundays at 8:00 am Holy Eucharist Rite II
A quiet, informal service held around the Altar

Sundays at 10:00 am Holy Eucharist Rite II with choir & organ (September–June)
Church School & Nursery Care during worship

Summer (July and August): Sundays at 10:00 am (click here for details)

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We are located at 36 New Canaan Road in Wilton. After you park your car, walk ahead through the walkway to the courtyard, and we our sanctuary is located on the left side of the complex.

Our parish office is located in the middle building connecting St. Matthew’s Episcopal Church and Wilton Presbyterian Church, and you can enter through the door marked Parish Office in the courtyard.

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“For all things come from you, and of your own have we given you” (1 Chronicles 29:14, NRSV)

Many Episcopalians know this line of scripture because we say it in our Eucharistic liturgy every week. It reflects our deepest understanding of thanksgiving and stewardship - God gives us everything! When we give to God, others, and the church, we are really giving back what is originally a gift from God. We are all stewards of the resources, abilities, and opportunities that God has entrusted to our care, and s caretakers of these gifts, we support our church and God’s mission by using our time, our skills, and our financial resources.

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A pledge is a spiritual promise, a commitment to the life of a faith community, a commitment to which God calls each one of us. Pledges help with orderly financial planning and they make possible all the programming and fellowship that we enjoy together, including: children’s and youth ministries, music, building operations and maintenance, clergy and staff compensation, mission engagement, fellowship, and much more. YOU are the heart of St. Matthew's. Your generous gift makes all of our programming possible.

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It is the tradition of St. Matthew’s to use fresh flowers at our altar every Sunday for worship as well as other special occasions. Prepared by our Flower Guild, you may sponsor the flowers on a date of your choosing in memory of a loved one, in thanksgiving, or other purpose for a suggested donation of $75. Those named in memory or in thanksgiving are also included in the prayers of the people on that Sunday. Following worship, our Petal Pushers deliver the flowers to members or friends of St. Matthew’s, bringing our prayers from our altar to their home.

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Healthy and vibrant future ministries at St. Matthew’s will be built upon the legacies we leave today. Many of our Episcopal institutions exist because past generations cared so much about the future of the Episcopal Church and expressed their caring by creating planned gifts. Planned giving is a ministry that is vital because it can help ensure the future of our church, but also because it offers you the opportunity to make a final testament about the importance of your Christian faith. Find some ideas how you might give from the Episcopal Church Foundation.

Title III, Canon 9, Section 6(b6), of the Constitution and Canons of the Episcopal Church (2015) is generally interpreted to mean that, at a minimum of one Sunday a month, the loose offering at the Holy Eucharist is designated for the clergy discretionary fund. Congregations may wish to set aside a budgeted amount for the discretionary fund in addition to or as a substitute for the above method. Congregations may designate that all fees or gifts received for weddings, funerals, and baptisms are contributed to the discretionary fund. Individuals may also contribute to the fund with occasional gifts.

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