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A Teachable Moment: Baptism and Confirmation

This Sunday, June 13, a number of St. Matthew’s youth will commit their lives to follow Jesus Christ. As you participate (in person or via livestream) please note an important difference in today’s service. One of our confirmands (and his sister) were not baptized as infants, so they will speak for themselves in response to the questions posed to them by Bishop Douglas during the renunciation and affirmation portion of the baptismal rite. They will say, “Yes!” when asked if they would like to be baptized. This is different than when an infant or young child is baptized; parents and godparents make these promises on behalf of the child who cannot speak for themselves. Our current two baptismal candidates understand what is being asked of them, therefore they do not need an adult to speak for them. Following the water poured upon their heads, Bishop Douglas will anoint them with chrism (holy oil) and place his hand on their heads. Since it is a bishop who is officiating, they will not need to be confirmed. At that moment they become full members of the Church. Soon after, others will come forward to kneel and receive the bishop’s laying-on-of-hands; moments before they will speak for themselves, renewing the baptismal promises made on their behalf by their parents and godparents. Since their baptism they have been members of the Church, but as one who is now more mature, they will “confirm” for themselves the promised made for them many years ago. As a congregation, we will also renew our baptismal promises as we join the confirmands in affirming them in the Baptismal Covenant. The Rite of Confirmation is a mature response to saying “Yes!” to Jesus if one was baptized as an infant or small child. As baptized Christians, the work ahead for all of us is to continue to live out the promises we renew at every baptism, bringing hope, reconciliation, and healing to a broken world in Jesus’ name.


Tags: Baptisms / Confirmation

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St. Matthew's Episcopal Church
36 New Canaan Rd., Wilton, CT 06897
(203) 762-7400

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Service Times

Sundays at 10 am

Holy Eucharist Rite II
Church School & Nursery Care during worship


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St. Matthew's Episcopal Church
36 New Canaan Rd.
Wilton, CT 06897

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(203) 762-7400

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St Matthew’s is a community of disciples and we are on a journey together. We are called to participate in God’s mission. We learn and dream, worship and pray, laugh, cry and serve together. St. Matt’s is a place where we learn about God and learn to be disciples. It’s a place to call home. A place to belong. Wherever you are on your spiritual journey, you are welcome.

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At St. Matthew’s, we are committed to cultivating a faith-filled space that warmly welcomes all, as we seek to grow in our knowledge, love and pursuit of Jesus and his way, together. We believe our Children and Youth, rooted in Christ, are equipped to start leaving their mark in our communities and across the world.

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Sundays at 8:00 am Holy Eucharist Rite II
A quiet, informal service held around the Altar

Sundays at 10:00 am Holy Eucharist Rite II with choir & organ (September–June)
Church School & Nursery Care during worship

Summer (July and August): Sundays at 10:00 am (click here for details)

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We are located at 36 New Canaan Road in Wilton. After you park your car, walk ahead through the walkway to the courtyard, and we our sanctuary is located on the left side of the complex.

Our parish office is located in the middle building connecting St. Matthew’s Episcopal Church and Wilton Presbyterian Church, and you can enter through the door marked Parish Office in the courtyard.

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“For all things come from you, and of your own have we given you” (1 Chronicles 29:14, NRSV)

Many Episcopalians know this line of scripture because we say it in our Eucharistic liturgy every week. It reflects our deepest understanding of thanksgiving and stewardship - God gives us everything! When we give to God, others, and the church, we are really giving back what is originally a gift from God. We are all stewards of the resources, abilities, and opportunities that God has entrusted to our care, and s caretakers of these gifts, we support our church and God’s mission by using our time, our skills, and our financial resources.

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A pledge is a spiritual promise, a commitment to the life of a faith community, a commitment to which God calls each one of us. Pledges help with orderly financial planning and they make possible all the programming and fellowship that we enjoy together, including: children’s and youth ministries, music, building operations and maintenance, clergy and staff compensation, mission engagement, fellowship, and much more. YOU are the heart of St. Matthew's. Your generous gift makes all of our programming possible.

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It is the tradition of St. Matthew’s to use fresh flowers at our altar every Sunday for worship as well as other special occasions. Prepared by our Flower Guild, you may sponsor the flowers on a date of your choosing in memory of a loved one, in thanksgiving, or other purpose for a suggested donation of $75. Those named in memory or in thanksgiving are also included in the prayers of the people on that Sunday. Following worship, our Petal Pushers deliver the flowers to members or friends of St. Matthew’s, bringing our prayers from our altar to their home.


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Title III, Canon 9, Section 6(b6), of the Constitution and Canons of the Episcopal Church (2015) is generally interpreted to mean that, at a minimum of one Sunday a month, the loose offering at the Holy Eucharist is designated for the clergy discretionary fund. Congregations may wish to set aside a budgeted amount for the discretionary fund in addition to or as a substitute for the above method. Congregations may designate that all fees or gifts received for weddings, funerals, and baptisms are contributed to the discretionary fund. Individuals may also contribute to the fund with occasional gifts.

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